Thoughts on Addiction
From “The Jerusalem Walk 2004” (Rydholm)

Addiction takes many forms in our culture.  It takes the form of over working, self-destructive eating patterns, frivolous spending, gambling, computer obsessions, latte cravings and indulgence in substance abuse.  Addiction is not so much about the lack of willpower as it is a symptom of an unmet need.  Indulgence is a form of self- medication.  We try to fill spiritual voids with quick fixes that simply do not replace our deepest longings as human beings.

As human beings we are hardwired to need intimate connections with others and with God…connections involving mutual honesty, true giving and receiving.  We experience life abundant, true purpose and love though such connections.  When we don’t have real relationships with God or with each other we are bound to feel empty and in need of diversions or “placebos” that promise to fill the void.  Our addictions take root in these voids.
 
As a culture of people preoccupied with the accrual of material possessions we take an honest look at our closest relationships and focus on opening our hearts to God & others in a quest to secure the attachments our spirits really need.  This involves forgiveness.  This involves more than a resolution regarding self-deprivation, or a season of willpower.  It involves humbling ourselves and admitting that we need God and others, that we can’t go it alone.  It is a journey into trust, contrition and vulnerability. When we humbly open our hardened hearts to receive all that relationship and God’s love have to offer our healing begins.