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Doc Talk: Putting Off Seeking Care
Sometimes people seek care before they really
need to it. Other
times they don’t seek care when they need it. The
later scenario ends up being far more costly to the health care
system. When illnesses go untended they can spiral into
lasting disabilities requiring nursing home placement. Intensive
care stays result when people ignore the fact that they are ill
and put off seeking medical attention until they are too sick
to deny it any more.
People put off seeking care for a number
of reasons. Here’s
what to do about some of the most common culprits.
- Naiveté: signs & symptoms: This matter can
be resolved by simply educating the ill person regarding the
meaning of symptoms and hazards of letting them go untended. Better
yet, educate people about common conditions before they get
sick!
- Stoic independence: This
requires a reality check, a conversation about how independence
might be lost as a result of letting symptoms go untended.
- Frugality: This implies the need for a
conversation regarding the current cost of escalated illness
which could be avoided through early intervention. The
argument needs to triumph over denial and the emotional safety
it affords.
- Lack of sufficient insurance: This is
a practical concern. People
need to show a source of pay before care is rendered in many
clinic settings. Sometimes referral to mission clinics
is needed. People need to know how to access county services
for guidance. Putting this information in newsletters
is a nice way to give people information and simultaneously
protect their dignity.
- Fear of diagnosis and its
implications: Denial, a favored coping mechanism of many people is often
grounded in fear. Emotional
support and chastening need to be balanced cautiously.
- System mistrust / bad memories: If someone has been
traumatized by past health care experiences, it is important
to relay this history (with permission) to the care provider. It
is important to offer advocacy and presence when vulnerability
is magnified by illness.
- Care giving / chore demands: This too
is a practical concern. Chastening
won’t help resolve the chest pain of a farmer who fears
the crops won’t be harvested if they seek care now. Ill
caregivers need urgent access to practical helpers. Consider
developing a congregational yellow pages for ready reference
in situations where caregivers need rapid access to care.
- Reluctance to bother MD: A very common concern of stoic
people is that they might be regarded as a whiner or a wimp
if they seek care before their symptoms escalate. Stoic
people need “permission” to bother MD. They
are more inclined to seek care as a favor to someone else than
they are to seek it for themselves.
- Familial defiance: Many times family members find themselves
at a loss to persuade a spouse or parent to seek the care they
need. Power struggles become amplified when vulnerability
is being experienced with illness. An outside party is
sometimes needed to resolve this. In these situations family
members are crying for advocate assistance.
- Reluctance to re-bother
MD: Time and time again parish
nurse notes reveal that “reluctance to bother” becomes
amplified tenfold once a prescription has been issued for a
condition. Nurses routinely report that they have stepped
in as advocates to obtain new prescriptions for people who
simply didn’t want to report that the prescription wasn’t
working because they were ashamed to admit it.
- Shame or guilt: Sometimes people seem
to blame their own inadequacy for the lack of resolution. They don’t
want to be perceived as a whiner or a wimp when side effects
are intolerable. They would prefer to stop taking the
medicine and hope for the best without telling the physician
for fear of offending them. There are times when advocacy
is needed for physical or emotional safety. This bears
no reflection on the physician unaware.
- Difficulty expressing concerns: Sometimes people need
help to communicate their concerns clearly because they become
anxious and cognitively cloudy in the presence of the physician. This
is where writing the concerns and questions down prior to a
visit becomes most helpful.
Telephone standby assistance is also helpful for getting past
the triage desk.
- Lack of transport: Sometimes
access delays are merely attributable to a lack of transport. People
need to know before they are sick where they can call for help
if they become ill.
- Apathy / Fatigue / Depression: All of these states
of low motivation can contribute to access delays. People
with these traits need to be watched closely for untended illnesses.
- Confusion: When illness is manifest in
confusion (whether it is related to medication toxicity,
cerebral confusion or stemming from another cause) are apt
to not recognize that they need help in a time when they
need it the most. When
confusion is untended it can lead to all sorts of mishaps.
For this reason parishioners at large need to be aware that
they have an advocacy role to play when someone they care about
is confused. They need permission to step in when fear
of intrusion is a concern. They need to understand to
potential consequences of letting confusion go untended. They
need to step up to the role of vulnerable adult reporters.
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